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Sunday, January 20th, 2013720/ 01 / Jan / 201314:14

Some are of us are shocked and\or annoyed slightly too easily. One of the keys to be happy, it is exactly to avoid falling in extremes, not to reject his failure on the others and to be capable of introspection. Who has never dreamed about last great journeys, about money with profusion, about big moments to live?. Who has never blamed the others for it than he should before any blaming himself?

The world is imperfect by definition, it is such as it is, and in an adulthood, we lose his illusions and his desires for revolt to quieten down and concentrate on what is essential in our lives.

Let us let the others take advantage of all that the existence can bring to them: a day, our tour will come if we have some patience, some perseverance and the humility. The whole world will never be as we want whether it is, but we shall always possess the power to return happy people around us.

If we feel ill at ease with certain aspects of the life, it is the whole demonic mechanics which can be set up. That is we can waste unconsciously the existence by too narrow conceptions of the life, the conceptions which we entraineront inevitably in the depraved slope of the perpetual dissatisfaction.

I am going to quote only an example. Let us imagine that you are too much a perfectionist. To be a perfectionist, theoretically, it is rather a quality than a defect. I even, I admit it, I am him a little, it is what moreover allowed me to obtain an honorable status in the company and to multiply my income by 44 in 18 years. (Well, it was not too difficult, because when you are at the lowest, you can make only go back up ...).

The imperfection is (very fortunately) present everywhere: at all the human beings, but also in the shape of objects, etc.... In certain degree, the perfectionist harms clearly: look at all costs for "the shelf space" and for "the beautiful", it is to waste his time, to leave it the health, while ruining that of its circle of acquaintances to whom we shall not stop righting the wrongs. (Well, yes, because everything has to be without harshness, in compliance with what is made of better, especially at our close relations ...).

I too, dream about a world populated with responsible individuals and with open-minded people … But "this ideal world" does not exist, and it is necessary to live with it. Know how to accept the imperfections of the world without trying to correct them constantly, it is can be the step most mattering towards the happiness...

Music: Tal - "nothing is completed"

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